
Some things are confusing, and it's always difficult to know how to handle them. As we get older, we cultivate stock responses to situations, and if it's a nasty situation, we try to keep our emotions under control. Well, that's what I've tried to train myself to do............
Some things are just plain baffling........... I had a conversation today with someone who tries to make a living as an artist, and during the conversation, I mentioned that I had started a blog. "What's the point of a blog?" she asked, in slightly sneering tones. So I started to explain why I do my blog, and the community that has developed around blogging, then it occured to me to ask her if she's ever read a blog....... and she said no, she hadn't.
I carried on trying to explain the allure of the blogging world, and she suddenly said in the middle of it, "Well I think blogging is a big waste of time". Not said in a soft manner either.
Stunned silence.
I retorted shakily that I didn't think that was a very nice thing to say, she just shrugged, and said that that was what she thought. I did manage to croak out load I thought she was rude.
Needless to say, the conversation came to an abrupt halt.
In sticky situations like this, I start to shake, my mouth goes dry, and I feel I need a nice hot cup of tea.
I have never been able to train myself to shrug it off when people say mean things.
I wonder how people like Alicia from'Posie gets Cozy', and Jane from 'Yarnstorm', and the thousands of people who read and love their blogs, (infact, see it as an essential part of their daily reading and entertainment), would feel, if those blogs were dismissed as a waste of time. The very thought seems outrageous!
I mentioned that I'd had over 10,000 hits on my blog, and I started it less than a month ago, but that didn't seem to interest her at all.
Actually, when I came home I double checked that figure, and the number stands at a very exciting 10,317!
Unfortunately another habit I can't curtail, is that I really do listen to people.......... so even when someone says something mean, like blogging is a waste of time, I start to mull it over, and so I began to wonder if my blog is a waste of time....... as she said, what's the point of blogging?
I enjoy it, that's the point.